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Why You Can’t Stop Craving Love From People You Can’t Have
There is a huge connection between abuse and neglect – especially emotional neglect in childhood – and a painful pattern in adulthood of pouring all the love in your heart into the IDEA of someone you can’t have. The...
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How to Detach When Your Feelings Go TOO FAR
Not every obsessive relationship is a romance. Sometimes it’s a friendship that gets through the cracks of the neglect you grew up with in childhood, and it becomes HUGE In your mind. You think about them, you want...
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10 Emotional Regulation Strategies for Everyday Life
For those of us with childhood trauma, this is what can hurt relationships the most: We get overwhelmed and emotionally dysregulated, and with anger growing more and more intense, we explode. That’s lashing out....
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These Red Flags Mean Walk Away! (4-Video Compilation)
One way you can get deeply hurt in a relationship is when you SEE the red flags in your partner's behavior, but instead of confronting them, you gaslight yourself: This means going into denial, justifying your...
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What to Do When You Think Your Partner is Lying
There are SOME people, some situations, that shut down your common sense. You can be going along doing pretty well, you’re seeing life clearly, you’re moving forward, your judgment is good. And then that ONE person...
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Childhood Neglect & The Urge to Abandon Yourself Around Bad People
When you grew up neglected, abandoned, and with none of your needs met – you may be likely to fall in love with people who are unable to provide the solid, caring love that you need and crave. And at the same time,...
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Pretending to Be "Nice" is Manipulation (And It Won't Work)
A “People Pleaser” is someone who abandons their authentic response to other people during their interactions – who abandons their own choices of what to do, what to say, and what to BE, opting instead to try to guess...
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Healing From The Scapegoat Experience (4-Video Compilation)
To avoid responsibility for their own actions, abusive parents sometimes make one child into a scapegoat, and siblings follow suit. The person scapegoated suffers horribly, but getting pushed out of the family...
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What To Do When Someone Makes You Feel Creeped Out
Participating in a recovery program is a powerful way to get support and change your life. In any group -- in person or online -- there's always some risk that someone will be inappropriate or cross boundaries,...
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How To Heal Hypervigilance From Parents’ Creepy S*x Behaviors
Some people are deeply confused about what’s appropriate to say and do around their kids. When parents are unboundaried like that, walking around undressed, raging, getting emotional, talking about exploits, it makes...
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20 Signs You’re In a Codependent Relationship
If your life energy is strongly concentrated on another person and their dysfunctional behavior... and you believe you'd be happy if you could just make them change...and they haven't changed... and you fight about it...
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Break Free from Childhood Trauma Faster (4-Video Compilation)
Many people affected by early trauma work HARD to heal, but don't get results. If you're ready to move forward and you're prepared to make changes that make healing easier, you'll want to hear this 4-video compilation...
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