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Change These Habits to Heal Damaging CPTSD Symptoms (4-Video Compilation)
Everyone knows that abuse and neglect in childhood can have negative effects on us as adults. But there's a taboo around admitting the damage we do to ourselves with our own trauma-driven behaviors. it's not your...
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Trauma Can Blind You to the Power YOU Have to Change
It’s easy to get sucked into terrible relationships with people who treat you badly, especially for people who were mistreated and neglected as children. You may find yourself with narcissists, manipulators, liars and...
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Limerence Flares Up When Life Feels Empty and Sad
Romantic obsession with someone you can’t have is a sneaky, life-wrecking toxin – almost a drug that feels great at first and *seems* like if you could just have that person, your life would go from empty... to...
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Do This to Heal Broken Red-Flag Detector
If you look around all the friends and partners who you've led into your life and you discover there's kind of a high proportion of people who bring trouble and danger into your life --- guess what? Your red flag...
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This Trauma Symptom Hurts Others The Most (4-Video Compilation)
Abuse and neglect in childhood can leave its mark on your ability to regulate your emotions. They come out too strong, causing you to lash out, burst into tears, panic or fall madly in love at an intensity that...
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It’s When The Terror ENDS That Trauma Survivors Sometimes Break Down
Living through a traumatic childhood takes extraordinary survival skills. You shut down, act tough, dance around to make other people happy, even when it means losing yourself. Sometimes the pain of all you’ve been...
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Some People Are Not Wired to Experience Romantic Love
Most of us who have ever had a relationship have fallen love, and most of us have also had someone not love us back. But what if you’re with someone who WANTS to be with you and loves you, but they say they don’t feel...
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The Great Love You Crave Is Not a Fantasy
Your Childhood PTSD symptoms have likely created a lifetime of problems in relationships -- choosing unavailable people, clinging to bad relationships or avoiding love altogether. But the reason you long for a real...
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Early Trauma Can Make It Hard to Connect and Commit (4-Video Compilation)
People who lived through trauma in childhood often develop an "avoidant" attachment style, which can be hard for their partners who may crave reassurance, commitment, and frequent expressions of affection that don't...
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Is It Cheating to Take a Job with Boundary-less Employer?
Charming and powerful employers have a knack for tempting people who are desperate for a big break in their career. They can offer money, fame, and connections that you might never access again. But if the price is to...
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Don’t Let Wounds of Neglect Trample Any Possibility of Love
t’s common in our culture for people to sleep together almost as soon as they meet. And people act like that’s fun and easy, and only foolish people can’t handle it, or think it should be avoided, in favor of...
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Don't Let CPTSD Block You From Becoming Your Full and REAL SELF
Trauma in childhood can leave with obvious problems, but also a subtle tendency to hide your authentic self, and to avoid reaching for big goals that are important to you. In this video I share common reasons why...
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