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Don’t Let Wounds of Neglect Trample Any Possibility of Love
t’s common in our culture for people to sleep together almost as soon as they meet. And people act like that’s fun and easy, and only foolish people can’t handle it, or think it should be avoided, in favor of...
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Don't Let CPTSD Block You From Becoming Your Full and REAL SELF
Trauma in childhood can leave with obvious problems, but also a subtle tendency to hide your authentic self, and to avoid reaching for big goals that are important to you. In this video I share common reasons why...
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You're Madly In Love But Pretend to Be "Just a Friend" (4-Video Compilation)
Limerence is the name for an obsessive infatuation that becomes more like an addiction to someone who cannot or will not be with you. It's especially common in people who were emotionally neglected as children, who...
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Childhood Trauma Corrupts Your Thinking and Pushes You Into Danger
No matter how much you pull yourself together after a childhood full of abuse and neglect, the injury of trauma will TRY to suck you back into horrible dynamics of your childhood without you even realizing it. Your...
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Unhealed Trauma Compels You To Cling to Horrible People
There are two terrible ways that self-centered parents can wound you in the way you have relationships – and in particular, when they didn’t take an interest or support the unique little person that you were, and they...
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Evidence Shows Only a Few Treatments Are Effective
If you've tried to get help for problems related to Childhood PTSD, you've probably tried many approaches to healing, and chances are, none of them really worked. In this video I teach about common approaches to...
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Healing Trauma Changes Your Relationship to Money (4-Video Compilation)
Growing up poor, abused or neglected can leave you struggling in adulthood to develop a good career and earn what you are worth. In this 4-video compilation I share four of my most popular videos about trauma, work...
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Here's Why Excessively Focusing on Others Keeps You Alone
The irony about a codependent person is that, while they’re focusing excessively on someone else, they’re actually absorbed in themselves. And one sign that someone is codependent toward you CAN BE that you feel VERY...
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Religious Cults Produce Damaged People Who Don’t Know Who They Are
Not all childhood trauma comes in the form of neglect or physical abuse. One of the most insidious forms of trauma is when parents brainwash children to override their own common sense – to ignore what their eyes and...
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How to Free Yourself From Constant Doubt and Worry
Fear is an inner obstacle that stands between you and all you hope to do, or have or become. I’m talking about “fear” in the broadest sense – an anxiety, or an inhibition inside that stops you from freely living and...
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These Skills Attract Great Friends to Your Life (4-Video Compilation)
Having a few good friends is a great blessing in life. But if you grew up with trauma, you may have had trouble finding and keeping friendships with people you love and respect. This is partly because of abuse and...
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Neglect in Childhood Pushes You to Expect Real Bonds Too Soon
A big reason why people who were neglected as children struggle to form stable, lasting relationships is because of insecure attachment. You might RUSH in and get enmeshed with someone you just met – and then freak...
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