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People Who KNOW They're Inflicting Emotional Damage Need to Hear THIS
There's an urban legend out there that if you think you might be a narcissist, you're not a narcissist. Many people display narcissistic behaviors at times, and are wise to be aware and work on that. But in this...
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The Real Reason It's So Hard to Recover from Childhood PTSD
Abuse and neglect in childhood can set in motion lifelong trauma symptoms. The people who hurt you are 100% responsible for this harm, and it's good if you can acknowledge that it's not your fault. It's also true that...
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Focusing Too Much on Others Damages Your Life (4-Video Compilation)
Many people misunderstand what codependency actually is -- a compulsion to donate all your focus to another person's life, and then to try to control them and extract your happiness from the hope that THEY will...
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How Casual Sex TRICKS YOUR MIND
Here’s something I WISH I had known when I was younger, so YOU can avoid some of the mistakes I made that cost me years of happiness. Casual sex sounds like it’s ordinary and fun and not a problem, and evidently...
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The Constant Push/Pull of Their Affection Grinds You Down
Healthy people run screaming from avoidant partners. But there’s something about neglect in childhood that primes you to fall harder for someone when they constantly pull you in and then push you away. At first see...
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The "Upper Limit Problem" Hits When You're Taking Big Steps UP
It's hard to explain, but just when you're accomplishing positive things in your life, obstacles and discouragement appear your path in the form of criticisms, attempts to stop your work, and self-sabotage from...
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If It Doesn't Help You Re-Regulate, It Probably Won't Help (4-Video Compilation)
We now know there's an underlying trauma symptom that drives almost all the others: Neurological dysregulation. And until you learn to notice it and get re-regulated, it can hold you back and complicate every part of...
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CPTSD Partners Only Change When THIS Happens
Anyone with CPTSD can admit (if we're honest) that our symptoms can be VERY hard on those who love us. We lash out and become emotionally dysregulated, and we sometimes mistakenly believe that others are CAUSING us to...
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Limerence For Someone Who Rejected You IS a Form of Avoidance
Your mind plays tricks on you when you fall in love with a long-distance loner who says flat out they don’t want a relationship. This absent character, present only as an electronic voice or a digital image but never...
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Don't Let Childhood Trauma Define Who You Are
There’s a big mistake that people who were traumatized as kids make when they’re trying to heal, and unfortunately it can stop your progress. When you're working on healing, there’s a temptation to “identify” as a...
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Here's What It Really Takes to Find a Match (4-Video Compilation)
Trauma during childhood can damage your powers of discernment, leaving you vulnerable to choosing immature, unavailable, and even abusive partners who drag your life down. How can you override the limitations of...
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How to Tell Your Friend They are Driving You Crazy
Sometimes close friendships fall apart, and even though you try to work on them and accommodate the other person’s quirks, their behavior drives you nuts. You try talking about it, but it only leads to conflicts. You...
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